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12/8/2017

Marriage


When choosing a marriage partner, do not focus only on beauty and physique. Look carefully at a person’s personality and quality of soul. A beautiful face can disguise a brutal heart. A handsome body can be host to an abusive mind. Look for understanding and compassion. Look for a matching intellect. Find someone who has similar interests and experiences. Then, do some tasks with that person to find out how well you work together. If you work together well on those tasks, you will work together well when you raise children or run a business or raise animals or whatever plan you have for your life.

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